A friend of mine who works from home, tells me that she always makes sure to wear shoes when walking into her home office. Her wearing shoes, or how she was presented wouldn’t make a difference to anyone as no-one actually sees her in her office. However, as she pointed out to me, she felt more confident in her position when she wore shoes.
People use many different techniques to assist with building their confidence levels. A lot of these techniques are based on how we think, feel and process information. Most of these self-help, positive self-talk techniques you could say work from the “inside out”. Get your mind and/or your belief system right and your behaviour, mood and confidence levels start to shift.
Let’s flip things around though. What would happen if instead you worked from the outside in?
How often do your mood and energy levels change for the better after you’ve simply had a new hair cut or dressed in your best outfit? Putting on your favourite pair of shoes and strutting your stuff can also provide the necessary confidence boost.
The last time you needed a lift in your confidence, how did you look and what were you wearing? If you had changed your outfit, popped a bit of lipstick on, or wore your lucky tie, would that have made a difference?
Besides your persona